Category: Dating and Relationships
Hi there Zoners,
I realy need your help! Yesterday I had my first time to say to one, who wanted a relationship with me, I already have got a boyfriend and that hurt me, to say that. But the worst is, it seems like I can't get ready with that! The thing is, my feelings always turn. First I felt pain, that turned into sadness after that, it was happyness about anyone is in love with me and I made it to say "no", then it was, I wanted to help him to get ready with that, it turned back into sadness and so on... I realy don't know, how to get ready with that!
I hope, you can help me or build me up somehow...
yours Sharpay
P.S: The one knows, if he is ment and please, don't be sorry for me!
Perhaps say that in your profile so you don't have to reject more people? I'm not sure...
HM, you could be right, Steve. Thanks.
don't be so sensative toward other when it comes to you being happy. That person will find someone eventually, and if he really cares for you then he'll understand.
yeah, thanks for that, I am over it!
wow...*me is very confused! lol, but it's all good! let me get this straight! You have a boy friend, but another person really wants to get with you? is that right?
Kia, that was right.
yeah, i know how you feel. just be honest and tell the other person that you're already in a relationship. but it is hard when you and that person have so much in common, but no matter how much you may be falling for that person, you have to realize where your heart should be.
I hate to say this, but all of this seems like horrible advice. If your boyfriend will never find out about the other person, I say cheat! Cheat until your little cheating heart is content and can cheat no more. Yes, that's right, go behind his or her back and just be completely selfish. The truth is, you are young, it’s not like you're going to marry this person. They will get over it, I'm sure.
So again, keep in mind, cheat! Cheat and then lie about it. Remember, you're not caught until there is video footage of you actually committing the offense. And, even then, someone could have doctored the footage.
you're not serious are you? that's horrible? I certainly pity your partner!
that's horible! how can you just say to cheat on your partner. i mean you're totally screwing them over and they don't even know it.
lmao, something tells me this guy's joking
@Ok Sure: pure girl or boy, who gets together with u, I know, how cheating hurts, I'd never do it, but what I wanted to say is, all that things are over, he got over it and fund someone, and me and my BF aren't together anymore, cause he cheated on me the whole time of our relationship... It hurts...
but thanks for ur tries to help me
sharpay
Now, of course I wasn't kidding, I'm quite the serious type...
Just imagine the hurt you would of avoided if only you had cheated, while your boyfriend was cheating? Sure, there would of been a terrible sense of paranoia on both your parts, but there would of been no pain to deal with, just pleasure and guilt, just like eating a whole lot of chocolate, pleasure and guilt...
Now that gets me thinking, yumm, chocolate, cheating, chocolate and cheating, oh my!
I'm brilliant! Next time you cheat, bring some chocolate into the equation!
If you're not serious, then fair enough
if you're being serious, then quite simply you're an asshole
I feel Sorry for any partner you have, or will ever have with that attitude. Get some Loyalties
cheeting, no, just a simple no. that's something I'll never do, because of what it can cause.
Well I thought I understood where Ok sure was coming from but umm yeah I think I was wrong. I thought the reason they said to go ahead was them trying to make the point that Ca felt bad for having to say no to this person who fell in love with them. Because if there is true love then doesn't matter who comes along no is an easy answer. You're not hurting anyones feelings if you are honest from the get go. If they still do well then it's still not your fault. It's their problem. You then say look we can be close but nothing more and if you can't accept that then I'm sorry but goodbye. When you are young you will fall in love a hundred times over. Enjoy yourself and don't commit to some thing untill you are ready and know what love is. That's my two cents.